Monday, January 28, 2013

and a nap gone wrong

So...this is my lil pirate at 9p last night....after his 5p sofa nap...wide awake.  I made him a peanut butter & jelly sandwich.  We brushed his teeth.  We read a book.  I went to bed.  He came in at midnight, still wide awake.  Telling me there was a monkey in his room...

I put him back in his bed & locked the door this time (we switched the lock around).  I went back to bed.  I woke up at 3a and he was finally sleeping.  Until 6:15a, that is.

You can imagine the day we had....not so good.  I put him in his room at 12:45p.  He started screaming at 1:30p.  By 2:45p he was pounding on the door so I had Luci go up & let him out.  She came down to let me know he had broken his closet doors.  Awesome.  

And then?  Asleep on the sofa at 4p.  How did I get him up for dinner?  I told him he could eat ice cream if he'd go sit at the table.  It worked.  At least he woke up...but he pretty much screamed until bed time.  And after bed time.

I was putting his clean clothes away as he climbed into bed.  Our conversation went like this...
gus:  why are you putting my clothes away?  are they clean?
me:  yep.  it's my job to make sure you have clean clothes to wear.
gus:  what's my job?
me:  to play, to eat healthy food, to be kind & to be a good listener.  did you do your job today?  were you a good listener?
gus:  um....not so much a good listener.
me:  will you try harder tomorrow?  
gus:  yes.  
me:  what will you try hard to do better?
gus:  FIGHT (with his tough guy scrunched up face).

*sigh*  he is without a doubt my most challenging pea these days.  three is a tough age.

Sunday, January 27, 2013

the sure sign

of a good party....
asleep on the sofa at 5:15p.  I tried to wake him to see if he was hungry (he had pizza & cake at 4p)...but all I could get out of him was that he wanted to sleep!  It was a pirate swim party...poor thing fell asleep with his eye patch still on his left eye.  
Yep...it left a mark.

Odds on him sleeping through the night?  
I'm thinking not so good.

Saturday, January 26, 2013

free

scene:  luci & gus in the tub.  lu is trying to help g learn his numbers using foam bath toy numbers.

lu:  okay gus.  i'm gonna point to a number and say what it is.  you say the number after me.

g: um, okay.

lu:  1 (g:1), 2 (2), 3(3), 4(4), 5(5), okay, now 5(5), 4(4), 3(3), 2(2), 1(1).

dad:  okay lu, now just point to a number & see if gus can guess what it is.

lu: (pointing to 3) okay gus, this one is purple (as if that is a hint), and it starts with an f.  ff, fff, fff.....
gus:  four?
luci:  no, free....

Thursday, January 24, 2013

so happyyyy togeeeetherrrrr

Dad...er...Batman!?!  is back.  I think they missed him.  I know I did!

My Huey

When we named him Hugh, I swore I was never, ever, like not EVER gonna call him Huey.  
Cause I don't enjoy Huey Lewis & the News.  I should never have said never.  
Cause I call him Huey all.the.time.

If I named photos this one would be titled:  The Spirit of Huey 

Aunt Baylee


 




 We were lucky enough to win the Aunt Baylee lottery for a whole week over Christmas!  We haven't spent any real time together in years so it was awesome to have her here for a whole week.  I'm pretty sure she was more than ready to return to her life, but we enjoyed having her!  Somehow I didn't get any good photos of her with Hugh, so I'll guess you have to come back Aunt Baylee!!

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

National Western Stock Show

Well, it was no Houston Rodeo.  Perhaps a more authentic stock show, but not as family fun friendly.  The kids did get their much longed for cowboy hats though, so that's something.  I think we started in the wrong spot...we went right to the want monster floor where they were selling hats, lassos, the chance to pet an animal (for $3), or ride a pony (for $6).  Should have known when we first walked in...these two women invited Luci to sit right down on a fancy pink shoe chair & put a plastic thing in her hair.  No price signs.  They quickly put this lil twisty thing in Lu's hair...$10 later we walked away & took out the twisty thing...only to lose it before we even made it home.  We should have started at the large animals.  That said, both big kids finally got to spend their "welcome to Colorado money" that Grandma & Grandpa Pierse gave them - 1 pink & 1 black cowboy hat later the kids were thrilled.  We walked around a bit & then went to our seats at the Wild West Show.  That part WAS fun.  I didn't even know people could do such stunts on horses.  
Hugh loves him some Uncle Todd.
A tip of the hat!

 Pretty in pink!


Uncle Todd & Aunt Krista joined us, which makes everything more fun.  Not only are they super helpful with the crew, they never stress & always keep things fun.  Aunt Krista took on the difficult task of getting some photos for us since my phone camera just didn't get the job done.  We can't wait to play with them again!

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

some third birthday photos

Luci's gift for Gus...self decorated wrapping paper :)
Our Wolverine blowing out his candles on his actual birthday.  He waited ALL.DAY.LONG (till 8p) for his dad to get home so Dad could be part of our celebration.  He even waited to open gifts!
 This past weekend we celebrated with Gus' lil school friends at the rec center.  The basketballs were a bigger hit than the bounce house!




Monday, January 21, 2013

one foot in front of the other

when did i turn into such a horrible blogger?  ugh.

so, a little update on the peas.

my lu.  growing like a weed.  suddenly she needs size MEDIUM (8) shirts.  need i remind you she's 5?  5 1/2 this friday, to be exact!  she seems to have hit a growth spurt - at least upwards.  she's quite a skinny lil thing.  she's a great eater, so i'm pretty sure she's just how she is meant to be. she's rocking school, reading beginning books to gus & hugh, and getting math on a conceptual level.  it's fun to watch.  she loves to ride her bike & the new 2 wheeled razor scooter she got for Christmas.  even if she is exhausted she can't nap, but she will go to sleep at 6p if we do the routine.  she still struggles with tags & socks & shoes not feeling right, but most of the time we make it to school on time anyway where suddenly all of those uncomfortable things are forgotten (i'm so grateful).

my gus.  turned 3.  'i'm not two anymore!  i'm three!  i won't ever be two again!'  still captain destructo, he dismantles & destroys everything he can get his hands on.  all boy.  loves superheros, cowboys, swords, power rangers, transformers, airplanes, atvs, tractors, bulldozers...you get the picture, right?  and how do i say this delicately ...he stinks.  literally...he smells.  i hear it's normal for the lil boy set.  he's a very neat eater for a 3 year old.  he rocks his balance bike AND his two wheel razor scooter (a bday gift from good ole mom & dad...after a few days of fighting for a turn on sissy's, the bday gift changed last minute).  he's a little more picky in terms of food than lu.  he will eat fruit & veggies & some meat, but he's a bread boy.  he goes to school 2x a week & seems to fit right in despite being the youngest kid in the entire school by several months.  getting him enough sleep but not too much is a struggle.  if he naps every day then he's awake until 10p or later (11:30 last night).  if he doesn't ever nap he passes out at 5p on the sofa.  good thing mama knows this too, will pass.

my hugh.  was one back on nov 17.  he is still.not.walking.  and mama is getting carpel tunnel.  for real.  he cruises all around, pushes chairs all over the house, pushes a trike outside...can even stand with great balance & sit down in a controlled manner.  but he never takes more than 2 steps before collapsing into a goofy heap on the floor.  he usually just lays right down, puts his feet in the air & starts rolling around.  his big nap of the day is from about 9a-11:30 or later if it isn't a school day.  then he doesn't go back down again until after 3p.  it's not a perfect schedule, but he just really seems exhausted by 9a, so keeping him awake is pointless.  he has a few words...done, more, cheese, nana (banana), mommy, daddy, zizzy (sissy), guh (gus), cat, bye, and night.  oh, and paci.  he doesn't use them all consistently...really done, night, bye & mommy & daddy are the only ones he uses all of the time.  he prefers to screech rather than use his words.  and when he gets mad he throws his paci.  he's feisty.

the sibs.  luci is usually AWESOME with hugh.  she genuinely lights up when she sees him at school pick up, first thing in the am, or after he wakes up from his nap.  she also pushes things a bit and struggles with that fine line between playing & being too rough.  luci & gus either play together incredibly well, or they are screaming/pushing each other.  gus really doesn't pay much attention to hugh unless hugh takes something of gus'.  so more negative attention...he doesn't really ever play with hugh per se.  not sure if it's just a gender thing or what, but luci & gus played together much better at that 3-1 age spread than gus & hugh do.

the hubs.  he is all set to retire from the navy later this spring.  his retirement ceremony was a few weeks ago & we all made the trek to NOLA (New Orleans) to participate.  grandma & grandpa pierse & uncle scott met us down there & we had lots of fun (except for the flight home.  worst non-rev experience ever.  clay says we are never non-reving again.)  he's getting to know the denver crew bit by bit and while the trips here are not impressive, his bidding is and he gets about the best schedule that is available to him. 

the house.  best described in one word.  INVESTMENT.  holy cow have we sunk some money into this thing.  we've painted 85% of the interior, refinished floors, put in new carpet, new fridge, new water heater, fixed sprinklers & drainage, done a few plumbing fixes, etc.  the good news is that the main floor has come a LONG way.  we had new 7 inch baseboard installed (previous owners had gotten floor stain all over the original baseboard), as well as new craftsman style casing around the windows & doors.  we also put in a marble back splash behind the stove and carried it over to the kitchen sink area.  AND we just ordered top down bottom up roman shades for all of the windows on this floor - can't wait to get them in a few weeks!  next up is to fix our sagging deck & get the exterior painted.  my other wish is to get actual ceiling lights installed upstairs...the lack of light wasn't a big deal in the summer, but it's pretty annoying in the middle of winter...

me.  part of my lack of posts is because mothering through the move just really took EVERYTHING i had.  like everything and then some.  literally the week we moved i was diagnosed as hypothyroid.  which turned into a hashimotos diagnosis with additional bloodwork.  i went from being nearly comatose by 2p everyday with a headache to being unable to sleep before 3a with heart palpitations.  long story short, my ever wise husband suggested i do some research on the condition rather than just take the traditionally prescribed meds.  and he was right...there were other options.  i've been seeing a naturopath now since november and i'm feeling MUCH better.  she diagnosed my hypoglycemia as well, and between the new 'diet' (to manage my hypoglycemia) and the different thyroid hormone i'm feeling leaps & bounds better, although i feel like i still have some distance to cover before i can say i'm at the vitality level i'm hoping for.  i also did a bunch of allergy testing, and while traditional allergists don't necessarily buy it, i do find that if i avoid the foods i reacted to i feel better...and keep the headaches -mostly at bay.  so between that, the house projects & the usual house keeping, and oh yeah keeping my 4 loves in clean clothes and fed real food instead of processed crap i just don't have a lot of spare time.  and when i do, at 8p, i pretty much collapse into a heap on the sofa & watch sitcoms or hgtv.  cause i've got nothing left to give at that point.  not even to my poor, valued, much loved blog.

i received a piece of advice as clay & i struck out to hike to the bottom of the grand canyon & back up in 2 days...the backpack guy said, 'just pick em up & put em down.  one foot in front of the other'.  it's been a good internal mantra for the last year.  i'm just pickin em up & puttin em down.  one foot in front of the other.  that said i'm hoping i'm nearly out of the proverbial canyon.  feels like i'm getting close ;)