luce, her guh, and 12 weeks

Luci & her guh... I'm pretty sure she drank at least a gallon of water from the pool....yummy!

my sweet baby.

I see this face a lot...usually when she's all up in my face, trying to tell me something that she thinks I'm not getting...

happy girl.

Luci's guh was here for the weekend and thank goodness! Aside from the usual first trimester woes, I came down with the nasty bug that everyone has been fighting and it was not fun...nor was I. Somehow Guh came in with her Guh-like way and managed to give me a much needed break from cooking, emptying & loading the dishwasher and laundry, all while providing 24*4.5 (the number of days she was here) help caring for an active needy toddler. Thank you Barb; I'm so grateful for you.

The big girl bed is still on hold. After getting a nice yet affordable twin mattress up onto the bed which we (and by we I mean Clay;) had assembled in her room we realized a-we were missing many, many support slats necessary to hold the mattress up and b-we were 5 inches short of mattress. ugh. So today one of the twin mattresses went back (a regular twin works fine for the trundle) and I found an extra long twin mattress that could be ordered....for twice the price, of course. Why does 5 more inches of length double the price?!?!? Clay's mission was to get some wood to make the other support slats...which he has plenty of time to do now given the mattress won't be in until Tuesday at the earliest, and probably more likely later in the week. XL Twin means XL mattress pad, sheets, the whole ball of wax.

It's been one of those weeks where everything seems to be so much harder than it should be.

BUT...I'm TRYING VERY HARD to keep perspective. At least, making a very conscious effort to keep perspective. It's okay that the bug spray doesn't want to come out while I holding my screaming toddler still in order to save her from another 50 bug bites. It's okay that our cats suck lately and pee on stuff. It's okay that a twin mattress doesn't fit our deal of the century used bed. It's okay that I have to take back all of the twin size bedding. It's okay that the laundry is never done and the house is never clean enough. It really is all okay.

As of Monday we reached the 12 week milestone...I'm off progesterone & can resume normal activities :) yaay. Babypea measured 12w4d and I was able to hear the heartbeat for the first time...nice & steady in the 160's. It was absolutely the best thing I've heard all week.

Our family is well and very blessed in so many ways. And that is what is important to focus on.

ugh...big girl bed time already?!?!!?

Luci has decided her favorite awake activity in the crib is trying to jump out. Literally, trying to jump out. As in, land on her head jump out. Guh & I found her yesterday morning just happy as a lark, practicing this new found activity. At first we watched, thinking it was cute. Then we quickly decided that cute as it may be, safe it certainly was not.

Picture flapping your arms like chicken wings. Imagine said chicken wings gripping the out side of the railing, with her armpits anchored against the top part. Imagine strong little abs & legs jumping as high as she can, with her head going farther & farther over the top of the railing. As in any one time that she got high enough her little waist would be over the railing & she would literally end up toppling out of her crib, head first, diving to the floor...and even if she tried to stop herself the momentum would keep her going.

UGH. Luckily Amanda had a video monitor we can use for awhile to keep an eye on her. When she did it last night I ran right in there & told her it was NOT safe and that beds were for sleeping. She promptly laid down, closed her eyes, and went to sleep. This morning I woke up & heard just a teeeny bit of noise from the monitor. Not even enough noise to be sure that she was awake. She was. Giggling ever so quietly at herself while practicing her fun new activity.

I don't think she's even trying to get out. I think it just must be fun. It looks kind of fun, if I was an almost 2 year old and had no idea I was about to break my neck. I've been prepared for her to start trying to climb out. I could even stomach the thought of a broken arm or something from a mis-step. But literally jumping out & landing on her head I'm not cool with.

Looks like Clay & I have a project to complete in the few days he's home this week.

1st gymnastics class = HORRIBLE

Luce had her first gymnastics class this morning...and she was HORRIBLY behaved! Of the 8 or so kids in her class, ranging from 15 months - 2 1/2 years, she was the ONLY one who wouldn't sit when it was time to sit, go where it was time to go, and do what it was time to do. And taking turns? Forget it! She not only didn't want to wait for her turn, but when it was her turn to go she just ended up crying, kicking & screaming. Seriously. The child cried, kicked & screamed on the floor for at least 35 minutes of the 45 minutes class. A proud mama I was not.

After 15 minutes of this behavior I broke down & gave her the baa. I was embarrassed by her behavior, and embarrassed that at almost 2 she still has a paci. But turns out it had nothing to do with the paci...it didn't really make a bit of difference so I hid it after awhile & she was so busy throwing her fits she didn't even notice.

Um, so yeah. But we aren't giving up. She asked to go 'homa' (home) after about 30 minutes but we stayed and the last 15 minutes were the best of the class. She finally did sit when it was time to sit at the end...otherwise no stamp. And she wanted that stamp...so when she realized that was the reward for sitting she went right into the middle of the group and plopped herself right down in front of the teacher. Smart, smart teacher ignored her until the very end (since she was the last one to sit) and then gave her the stamp. Go Miss Karla.

To be fair, she's sick. Has been for 3 weeks now. I probably shouldn't have taken her to the class, but I've been looking forward to it for weeks thinking she would just love it. I have an antibiotic prescription filled, ready to go. But the only time she's had an antibiotic it actually made her more sick (allergy to penicillin that took a week to show up) and our doc took her off all meds due to drug intolerance or something. And I don't want to make her feel worse.

Ugh. So we'll try again next week....cause she starts pre-school for 3 1/2 hours 2x a week this fall...and she's got to get a bit better at following directions before then or they'll probably kick her out!!

babypea waves hello

sweet baby waved hello to me this morning and all is still looking well. (s)he's too big to see with the vaginal ultrasound, and a bit small yet to see perfectly with just an abdominal ultrasound so the measurements were all over the board this morning. somehow the angle made it hard for our doctor to get the whole baby in the screen to measure...but she wasn't the least bit worried about it. she even asked if i had had coffee this morning because babypea was so active. no coffee though, just 1 slice of pb&j toast and a Carnation Instant Breakfast shake (the no sugar added kind...it has a lot of protein :).

thank you all for your continued thoughts & prayers :) I go back a week from today...they're so good to me there!

too cute for words

so I'll let the photos do the talkin...

10w2d

Babypea is still in there, healthy heart beat and all :) (S)he wiggled around to say hi to me again this week. This last week was the worst yet in terms of nausea. I was starting to feel better at this point with Luci, but with this pregnancy it still seems to be getting worse. I'm not complaining though...just documenting our journey!

Luci, who should we ask God to bless?

Luci: DAAAAADDDD!!
Mom: Dad? (he's #1 every night) Who else?
Luci: ASHERRRRRRRRRRR!!
Mom: And Asher? That's nice Luci, who else?
Luci: WAAAYYYEEEEEEEE!!!
Luci: JAAAMMMIIIEEEEE!!!!!
Mom: And Wally & Mr. Jaime? Oh that's sweet Luci. What about Mom?
Luci: mmmhmmmm.

Mr. Jamie has taken on a more prominent role as of late....I think he's the subject of Luci's very first crush! She smiles & looks almost bashful when we mention him, and has a big shy smile for him now each time we see him. Super cute.

tails

luce has been requesting "tail?" on a daily basis. we went to target yesterday and got her some proper little girl pony tail holders of her very own (these were mine). i'm quite surprised they don't seem to bother her...in fact, she's a big fan. me too.

9w4d

Babypea was measuring well again this morning at 9w4d with a normal heartbeat. Last week the baby measured a bit bigger than I expected, and this week appears to be right back on track. (S)he even wiggled again to say "hi mom!" and I saw the little arms a bit better this week. I've been incredibly anxious this last 10 days or so...it was hard not to think back to what was going on in the last pregnancy at this time. Luckily I get to go in for another peak next Wednesday, and she told me not to hesitate to come in sooner if I get too anxious in the meantime. We've seen a healthy baby now three weeks in a row, and I am SO grateful...I just need to keep reminding myself that everything looks as great as it can. Of course I will get anxious/still am anxious, but I do hope that this week is easier.

22 months

-two words...luci is finally regularly starting to string two words together (a 2 year old milestone). mom shoes, more rice, more cup, more mom, more dad, color hiding (when a crayon has rolled under a piece of furniture), more Blue (Blue's Clues), guh hug, clock hug, watch off, watch on (she's obsessed with her dad's watch). zoo park is her latest. we've been hitting a park across the street a lot and clay & i called it a 'new park'...but somehow she's started calling it the 'zoo park'. i wouldn't call her conversational yet, but we are definitely on the way :)

-sleep...the kid needs less sleep than i do. we get in the bath at 7:30p, but she is regularly still awake at 9p or later hanging out in her crib...sometimes happily, sometimes not-so-happily. she is often up at 6a, but i do my best to keep her in there until 7a. then she usually naps from 1.5-2.5 hours in the afternoon. and so do i ;)

-shows. she loves tv & would watch it all day if we let her. but don't worry, we don't. she now knows when we tell her that is all the shows for now what we mean & will even turn off the tv for us. she goes in spurts and only wants to watch one show for a week or more at a time. right now it is Blue's Clues with the occasional Curious George or Boots (Dora the Explorer). Little Einsteins has fallen off her list and I can't say I'm terribly upset about it...

-she talks a lot about her guh. she knows all of her grandparents and can identify all of them in photos & on the phone (and loves them all), but she talks about guh (Grandma Pierse) about 20 times a day. she's often coloring for guh and pretending to talk to guh on the phone. and if you believe what she says, she dreams about guh during every sleep time. and in every dream they go for a walk, to the park, and swing. wheeeeee! sometimes they go to church too.

-she talks a lot about church, and sometimes on a random afternoon when I ask her what she wants to do she says 'CHURCH!'. usually followed by "church, shhh, quiet (pronounced kai-eeet), jesus, pray, AMEN!" she knows we go see Jesus and Father Tom & listen to stories & pray. as for her actual behavior during church...it is getting better overall i think. she starts to lose it about 45 minutes in...and since it lasts 1hr 20min or more, the last bit is quite a struggle for mom & dad. this week she kept saying "homa, homa, homa" over & over the last 20 minutes.

-she's started her own funny lingo. home is now 'homa'. and hi is now 'hiya' and okay is 'okaya'.

-she's started to allow me to put bows in! i made a big deal of letting her pick out a bow for a few days & now she's very into it. that doesn't mean it stays all day, but it is a start a least. she's also very into 'tails' (aka pony-tails). we've started wearing a tail the last couple of days & i'm a big fan. if we don't do a bow or tail her hair is in her eyes...bothering both of us. i'm thinking of trying pig-tails soon :)

-her eyes are SO sensitive to the sun! she does always wear a hat to help the cause though. she's not a fan of keeping sunglasses on though.

-i'm trying hard to get her out more. the kid cannot handle being in the house for even half of the day. we hit a park in the AM & the PM. and i'm taking her to story-time at the library once a week...she's not much for the stories but will sit & color & get a jump start on the craft while the stories are being read. she loves the craft part & also the animal cracker snack they get.

-we are starting gymnastics with her on June 11. diaper daredevils it's called....should be PERFECT. i have to participate with her until she's 2 1/2, but i think it'll be good for her. she LOVES to climb & i think this might be a great outlet for her energy for many years to come. plus with the summer heat & bugs coming we need to find more indoor activities. it's sort of like our winter for all of you northerners ;) i'm a displaced northerner in the south...dare i say that is the worst kind?

-she also goes in spurts for books. we read the Curious George surprise birthday party story for a month straight i bet. she's now obsessed with a potty book i got from the library.

-ahh, the potty. she's still not very interested. she is all about telling us she wants to sit on it...and after being placed on it she promptly jumps off in giggling craze running back into her room to hide.

-she's very into hiding...between the chair & ottoman or behind the curtains.

-she likes to go on 'trips' in the house....she'll gather up some stuff, put on some shoes, and say "byyyeee, see you...." then walk around the kitchen, come back in and say "hiii!!!" and then in the next breath she's off again, "bbyyyyeee!"

-when it comes to eating it is either feast or famine with her. the other night at our friend Margeaux's house she had TEN chicken nuggets, THREE big circle fries (like 2 inch diameter), 6+ veggie chips, 1/4 cup or so of oranges and some guac. and then a cookie afterwards! Then some nights she takes 3 bites and proclaims, 'done!'

-she hates getting mulch or dirt in her shoes at the park. she'll sit right down regardless of where she is or what she's doing proclaiming "SHOE!", take her shoe off, shake the offending bit out, and then put it back on.

-her favorite clothes, pjs & hats are the ones from a guh or clara. if she has something on and she says clara or guh, and then i correct her & say "mama got that one for you" she promptly loses excitement for the garment. i try not to take it personally.

-she has a super sweet heart. she regularly kisses and hugs us, photos of her guh's & friends, and even random things like clocks. it is VERY fun to watch her greet her little friends with a big hug.

-she has a temper. when she gets mad she throws everything in sight. or if we're holding her she'll hit us.

-she's not afraid of time-out. cracks her up, as a matter of fact. challenging for her parents...i'll tell you that much. she's very quick to say "sowwwwy" (sorry).

-she's making progress on her fork & spoon abilities. we learned the hard way that applesauce is a better practice food for a spoon than tomato soup...

-she frets about funny things. like a little black mark on the wall at the top of the stairs "OH NO!" (every single time) and the street sign that was down in our alley. now that a new sign is in place she proclaims "i did it!" every time we walk by. which is like 4+ times a day.

-she asks for specific shows...blue, car (the one about the car). i let her favorite episode get deleted like 2 weeks ago & she still asks for it with a smushed up sad face at least once a day. "blue, happy birthday....sorry"...because i've been telling her i'm sorry it is gone every time she asks...3x a day for 2 weeks.

Hawkeyes

Luce says "Go Hawks!"...and is very excited about wearing her hat from Aunt Baylee....

and cousin Asher might be moving to Michigan...but he'll always be a Hawkeye at heart (he told me so)...never a Wolverine...

Can you believe these two little sweet babies have not yet met? Never fear though, Luce can identify Asher in photos and regularly wants to "kiss" and "huuuug" him. One day soon I hope!

falling

i'm falling for this baby. this fifth baby of ours. in the last few days i've let myself go there...to actually imagining meeting another sweet baby. i can't wait to see who we make next. i love luci so much and think she is so great that i can't even fathom how exciting it will be to watch another one grow...how (s)he'll be different from luce, and how s(he) might be the same. just thinking of getting to hold this baby brings tears to my eyes. and as i fall for this baby more & more, the idea of losing him/her brings more pain. more days of dreams to miss, i guess. i never really imagined meeting peas 2-4, never really imagined holding them...i just couldn't...it was way to painful and the wall just got higher & higher with each pea.

yet with each day that passes i find myself thinking a bit farther into the future. to Christmas time. sweet babypea #5 is due to arrive on december 27th. i can't help but think how special and lucky this pea would be to share a birthday with Jesus. and what an amazing Christmas gift this pea will hopefully be. luce & i pray every night for her brothers & sisters...and we ask this sweet baby to 'come play, peeez'.

the outcome of this one pregnancy puts us into one of two very different buckets. a sweet baby to hold puts us back into the 'normal' bucket in terms of pregnancy. and a loss at this point would put us in a very small (.16%) percentage of the population who experiences recurrent miscarriage or recurrent pregnancy loss. never in my life have i wanted to be 'normal' so badly.

peez come play.

8w3d...

or 8w4d depending on the tiny spot that our OB clicked on is how our pea was measuring this morning. (s)he still had a great heartbeat >150 bpm and even wiggled a bit to say hi. needless to say, each time we see babypea measuring right on track with a heartbeat, our hearts leap with joy. we have to wait until next wednesday to see babypea again, and i have a feeling come about sunday i'll be getting a bit anxious.

most days i'm nauseous off & on, and pretty much all days i'm exhausted, pretty much all day long. nap time is now just not for luce, but mom & luce. i told our ob this morning that i've been feeling like i got hit by a slow moving truck...to which she replied, "you should be feeling that way for the next month or so." and actually, the symptoms all make me feel better about the pregnancy, so i thank Him for giving me signs since He knows i'm one of those high anxiety types. :)

no traveling for us until july, which i'm actually a-okay with. hopefully both grandmas will oblige us and come on down here for a visit.

talent

miss amanda has talent. and a fancy new camera. and loves our pea. the combination of the three is amazing. thanks for sharing with us...




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a sweet baby

is what we saw this morning. a baby who measured pretty much right on track at 7w1d, with a heartbeat between 150-160 bpm. not sure if it meets the technical Catholic criteria for a miracle, but in my own little world, i feel as though i have been blessed with my own little miracle.

i was 99.99% certain what we were going to see this morning (no baby)...proclaiming to my husband and our OB right before the ultrasound that i was confident i knew my body. i've not been so good over the last week...eating more carbs than i should (serious craving for PB&J), sugary desserts, having caffeine a few times, having a tea at starbucks, eating under-cooked eggs, deli meat...you get the idea. i stayed up late last night researching recurrent pregnancy loss, taking notes, and creating a very neat & orderly word document full of questions so that we could develop an appropriate action plan.

and then we found a sweet baby with a beating heart. and then i said holy #%*!, and burst into tears. and then i couldn't stop saying holy moly and i couldn't stop crying.

this last week, for the first time in my life, i understood the words "comforted by prayer". i seriously felt a comfort that i can't describe. i was sad, but i did feel a comfort that God was giving us what we needed. i was also mad...thinking that apparently what we needed was another pregnancy loss and my new mission was to find out why. and here He goes, showing me again that i just don't know. obviously, my mission is just to trust. and i promise to try harder.

thank you all for your kind words, sweet thoughts, and heart felt prayers. they made a difference.

week in photos

Guh Guh Pierse came & made our week! Mom & Dad got to go out on a much needed date AND out for breakfast! Woohoo Mom & Dad! Thanks Guh Guh.

two baaaas....too not so funny. we'll be working on that in the next few months.

and my personal fav. you can't really tell here, but Clara & Luci love each other SO SO much that they fight like sisters. so what did i do? separated them with a pillow of course, and told them they had to stay in their own space & not cross the pillow divider. the whole thing gave Luce quite the furrowed brow....ahhh...made me miss luci's aunt brooke....

mad & sad & somehow not surprised

the ultrasound we had this morning of unborn pea #5 did not go as we had hoped. we saw an empty gestational sac. no fetal pole or yolk sac. just an empty gestational sac measuring 5w1d. i had positive ovulation predictor kits this month on days 17-21...so for those of you not up on conception math, at a minimum i should be at least 5w3d, and probably more like 6w. and this early the measurements should be quite accurate.

my hcg levels looked great last week...more than doubling within the expected time. this week they fell short of the doubling benchmark. they are high enough, however, that regardless there should be a fetal pole (aka an embryo that turns into a fetus and then into born baby). and yet, there was not. the fetal pole should be visible with hcg levels around 5000. mine was 24,052 today, and it should have been 44,000+. if the sac is still empty when we go back a week from today it'll be diagnosed as a blighted ovum. of course i'd love to see a sweet embryo in there next week, but hopeful is not a word that describes what i'm feeling right now.

furious. furious is a much better word to describe my current feelings. i'm in a pit of my own pissed-off-ness. i'm confident in time i'll climb out, cause that's what i do. but for now, i'm wallowing in a deep dark deep dark deep deep dark pit of fury.

and where do we go from here? i haven't shared that i did a month of [in]fertility testing...looking at everything under the sun. i didn't care for the doctor (a reproductive endocrinologist). she prescribed a few drugs that the blood work didn't seem to support...based on a hunch I guess? should i have trusted her hunch? i didn't; instead i increased my workouts, went on the south beach diet phase 1, and met with a nutritionist. since February my diet has better than it has in years. i have good portion control, and a good balance of whole grains and protein. i'm doing what i can.

do we seek a second opinion from another reproductive endocrinologist (we're already thinking yes)? do we take the summer off from trying to conceive? intellectually i know my eggs and Clay's swimmers aren't getting any younger so does that make sense? can i be a good wife and mother to the family i have been blessed with while continuing to ride this emotional roller coaster? is God telling me our family is complete the way it is? or have we just had a string of random, non-preventable losses? how long can i trust my heart, which says that i am not done having babies? at what cost?

in the meantime, our ob's advice was to "continue what you are doing, and pray." so here i am again, staring at another long week of waiting for confirmation one way or the other. praying again that the Good Lord give our family what it needs. and praying for the courage to believe that what He's giving us IS what we need, even when i don't like it or understand it.

21 months...a few days late

well it finally happened. i've been thinking Luci was 22 months old for weeks now. so i guess that answers the question of when you lose track of the months!

our pea is QUITE the funny duck. she keeps us laughing and smiling all day. a few notes...

-the answer to any question you might ask her is 'okay'. doesn't matter if okay is really an appropriate response, that is what you get. it is adorable and i'll try to capture it on video.

-she mixes up her sounds a ton. amanda told me the fancy name for this (and said it was normal for this age), but i've forgotten it already. like waffle is fahwaa, and potato is toe-pay-toe. she had another funny one the other day but we've both forgotten it already!

-every morning i ask her if she had sweet dreams. she says okay. then i used to ask her who she dreamed about, and then what they did together. now she just says, 'okay. guh. wahh.' translated this means: yes I had sweet dreams, I was with Grandma, and we went on a walk.

-she tells us if she has poops, but still prefers to just run around giggling when diaper-less...she's not into anything regarding the potty except for the little bear who is on the front of it.

-whenever you ask her where something is or where it went, she says, "i-uh-know" (I don't know), and then says, "hmmmmmmmm"...thinking about where it might be.

-the girl LOVES her milk. it is pretty tough to get her to drink water these days...if I give her a cup with just water she gets a scrunched up face after the first sip and says, 'miihhh, miihhh', meaning of course, milk.

-she LOVES Little Einstiens. I'm not going to tell you how many we might watch on a given day...depending on the weather & her mood, of course. She calls them all by name. June was first, "nune", next was Leo "eeyyoo, eeyyoo", then Annie "nennie", then Rocket "ocket", and then Quincy "quince". She pats & claps & raises her arms for blast-off every time.

-her next favorite show is Blue's Clues. she asks for Buhhe? Buhhe? She loves to do the little think think think dance with Steve or Joe. every time she sees a paw print anywhere it is "a-cue! a-cue!" aka - a clue :)

-she's really starting to fight sleep times. she used to be very agreeable when we'd announce it was nap or bath & night time. Now there are usually lots of tears and screaming, most of which are often gone by the time we get to her room. there is a fight for a third book...which she doesn't win. followed by more fussing. then once in her crib, she asks for a cup, and then a snack. she's figured out stalling, i guess.

-this fighting of sleep is resulting in some more tiredness than usual. she's been waking up at like 6a and is then just exhausted by noon. 7a is a much better wake up time for her (and mom), but if she's up at 6a there seems to be little chance that she'll go back to sleep. she will sit & chat & yell maaaamm for an hour though. I go in once at 6a and tell her it is still night time (and change her diaper), and then again usually at 6:30a when she starts to get mad, and tell her it is STILL night-time, and that I'll come get her when it is light out.

-I guess I must often ask her, "Do you want mama to carry you?" because when she wants to be held she puts her arms out & says "carryou? carryou?"or if she wants us to hold Bea she'll say "carryou Bea?"

-She's VERY into her 'boo-boos'. I bet we look at & kiss (and subsequently make 'all better') boo-boos 30 times a day. all better sounds like 'awbeyah'. Last night her little bath toy had a spot on it...Luce said, 'boo-boo' and kissed the toy...and then proclaimed, all better!!

-"Wait" is her new word of the week. And yes, she uses it correctly. I think I say "wait for mama" about 50 times a day.

-She can climb up the monkey bars part at the park. But today she basically walked off & fell down...I've been warning her for weeks that we only go up the bars, not down. Hopefully she figured that out today. Somehow I'm guessing not, though.

-Shoes. She wants to wear her crocs (or alligators, as she still calls them), but hates getting dirt or mulch in there. We probably take her shoes off once every 5 minutes while we are at the park. Today we tried socks in the crocs...same result. Guess tennis shoes will be the big summer shoe after all!

-Church. Shh. Jesus. She gets it. Yet somehow 90 minutes is just too long for a pea to sit still & be quiet once a week. She tries though.

-Ugh. I know there is at least one more big one I wanted to mention. but i can't think of it. so this is it for now!

this

is how much fun Luci had at the birthday party we attended this morning (Allie turned 2 and Bryan turned 4). We had been in the car about 5 minutes and it was 11:30a. The party was at Pump It Up (a big jump house), followed by pizza & a cupcake. While a bit pensive at first, soon she was conquering it all with a wiped out mama close behind. It was our first time there...next time I'll wear work out gear...or better yet...send her with Dad!!

Thanks for such a fun party Turns Family!!

and yes, she's still sleeping now, an hour later. she slept all the way out of the car, up the stairs and into bed.

hat

at. at. at. aka, hat. we wear a hat all the time....she definitely has her own sense of style...she did this all by herself!!

blessed again

written, but not published last thursday....
we've been blessed again. pregnancy #4, pea #5, was confirmed today by our favorite nurse after a blood draw. it is very, very, very early...as in, it could not be confirmed if it were any earlier. but i'm sharing anyway this time, because one the hardest things about our previous losses was not having the pregnancy, and therefore, loss, acknowledged....because we hadn't shared. not that i wanted to make my grief public, but it seemed unauthentic to pretend life was going on as normal when it was actually anything but. those pregnancies and those babies are forever a part of who i am. in my mind and in my heart i have one baby i get to live with now, and three that i don't. but i will someday, and i do feel in my heart as though i am a mama of 4...and now...5.

todays update, monday...
the second blood draw today showed that our pea is still growing...but it is still very, very, very early...i won't even be 5 weeks until friday. and i'm quite certain i ovulated late, so really i don't think our pea will be 5 weeks yet. that being said, all looks to be as well as it can be at this point. my favorite nurse has hooked me up with another check on my blood work a week from today, and if all looks well at that point, we'll get a quick peak at our pea on the big screen two weeks from today (aka an ultrasound).

we are so, so blessed.

Guh Guh & Guh-pa or Pa-pa

Luce has been going through serious Grandparent withdrawal...come back soon!!

no...we didn't get a dog...we just loved on one Abbey dog for a few hours on Friday while said pup's house was being shown...

our cats came back several hours later...

Easter

Hope you all had a Happy Easter! We sure did! It started off a little rough as we were late for mass (they had changed service times but I apparently missed that memo) but a sweet family gave up a seat for me (they held a toddler instead of giving him his own seat) & Luce and it all worked out. After church Luci checked out her Easter basket & had fun opening the eggs...she didn't seem to mind one bit that they were empty. In fact, the highlight seemed to be throwing the yellow, green & pink 'grass' all over the house, much to her dad's chagrin!

Grandma & Grandpa Pierse arrived on Thursday & we've had a lovely visit. They are leaving early tomorrow & we'll all be sad to see them go! Lucky for us they are great about coming back soon!

Congrats Aunt Baylee!

Luci's Aunt Baylee secured herself a great internship today for the summer with GE Capital! In Connecticut! Then this fall she'll be heading to London for a year at the London School of Economics! What a superstar Aunt!! We are very excited for her, but a bit selfishly sad that it'll be hard to see her for the next year+.

YAY AUNT BAYLEE!!

noteworthy

goofy girl with her cake & Bea...and Mom's shoes...

A few notes on our weekend worth documenting. I know I'm forgetting some, but for now, here goes...

Luci has started to tell us how she's feeling physically....Saturday morning while playing by our single pane windows she said, "cohh, brrr, coak" (cold, brr, coat).

Her eyes are VERY sensitive to light. When she wakes up from a nap even the tiniest bit of light seems to really bother her until her eyes adjust. On Friday she woke up & as I was changing her diaper she said, "eyes, eyes" in a moany, painful kind of way. We sort of knew this even when she was a teeny baby...she'd always bury her head in our shoulders when we took her first out of the car on a sunny day.

After gas is passed, she says "toot" and giggles. She almost always lets us know now before she poops, and is delighted to go sit on the potty...for all of 3 seconds before running around giggling. I think pooping in the diaper is preferable to the floor for now, so she usually ends up back in a diaper for the actual poops.

Every time she hears an airplane she says "paaaine" (plane) followed by "DAD".

She loves her some Miss Amanda. More & more every time we see her.

She likes to let the water out of the bathtub...and tells it 'byyyeeeee' and tries to touch the little whirlpool that is created as the water is sucked out...

She seems to have a rough time in large group settings. At the Easter Egg Hunt on Saturday she melted before the festivities even started. Then later that day at her big girl friend Caroline's 4th birthday party she was similarly...shall we say...challenging...

Happy Birthday Guh, Guh & Uncle Keith

yes...this was the best photo I managed to get...and yes...it is both of her grandpa's birthdays today...as well as the birthday of her Uncle Keith!

cake

tonight, having healthy "cake" she's very into feeding the cats right now. or better said, taking food from the cupboard & stacking it. and tormenting Milo by opening & shutting the lid to the dry food container 1000x a day.

she LOVES her trike. it is still just a bit too big for her...her little feet don't reach the pedals all of the way around...she seems unfazed by this & still insists riding it is something she'd like to do all day. and by riding it I mean having mom or dad push her all over the 'hood. all day.

she stays busy taking toys from one room and collecting them in another room. for the past week or so she likes to have things lined up...on the stairs, windowsill, or in the main thorough-fare of the house....

And of course, she loves her some daddy...

The obsession with cake continues. Yesterday she had to take 'cake' (plastic ice cream cone) with us out to dinner with our girlfriends Trina & Margeaux. I also had to wear a frog barrette, so that she would wear the monkey one.

She woke up from her nap today moaning 'caaaake, caaaaaake' and only wants to read "George, Cake" (aka the story in our Curious George book about his birthday party).

So what is a good mama to do? Find a recipe for Wholesome Oat Muffins, go to the store to buy ingredients, make them, and tell her she gets to have cake tonight before bed. What does sweet baby do? Eat her cake half-heartedly, and then dump the MANY crumbs onto the floor proclaiming, "all done!" At which point good mama puts sweet baby in time out. In turn, sweet baby offers an immediate "hug? hug? hug?" with a HUGE grin the entire time. Good mama talks about working hard to make sweet baby cake, and that it makes mama sad when sweet baby throws cake on the floor. Sweet baby offers hugs & laughter to the point that in order to remain a good mama (per original intentions) we had to just hug & call it a day...